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Monday, December 17, 2012
Making Good Resolutions
Today as I was enjoying the
thoughts of yesterday's trip with the Grandkids to Rockwood's "Parade of
Lights" there was a new resolution made. Recognize what should not be
changed. Who after all would want to change the spontaneous hug of a two year
old as he whispers "I wove you Gwampa". Who wants to change the
imaginary dragon nipping at all of us? Why change the obvious highlight of the
event expressed by my granddaughter, "Santa ran over the horse poop".
Life is like that. Horse poop is funny.
There is a need for me to
resolve to change but no need for it to be some statement made on a specific
day. This year there have been enough necessary changes. It is likely this is
true of all of us. Improvements made
around the house, more help being offered in regular household chores, changes
made in business and even changes in personal habits. These were conscious choices
many have made this year. Budgets get
changed, income changes and family dynamics change and all these demand a
resolution to cope and adopt. Good people change, they cope, and they resolve
and overcome. They fight, often without really knowing what it is they are
fighting for.
In starting this blog I rhetorically
resolved to finish it. Douglas interrupted me.
In many ways the story of my life is that "I" have been interrupted. This is great. It fits with my past goal of
relishing hiccups in plans. It is wisdom to understand that the "I"
that I strive for is best reflected in the mirror of interruptions. Interruptions
by a beautiful wife, wonderful kids, customers, friends and strangers. This
wisdom is only half of it though. The other half is that all the above people
have graciously allowed me to be an interruption in their life. Good decision, I loved the break in my day
Douglas created, loved learning more about Cerebral Palsy and was fine with
having to write this now; which is later than I had hoped.
My business involves
discussing changes in a garden. This
consulting process demands a lengthy conversation on what is good about the
existing yard. In fact it is my job to point out good things that they
missed. If there is no recognition of strength
in the current garden they will likely be disappointed in the creation they
hope to make. Personally, though this
likely hurts sales, it is necessary to warn people about the amount of time and
money a new garden will cost them. If one has never weeded in the past there is
little hope that they are going to weed in the future. New sod takes hours and
hours of watering. If you dream of a Ferrari you need to be able to afford the
insurance and the maintenance. Better to let us "garden" a change over
time than landscape an immediate change.
Attached is one of my
favourite poems on change that I sent to a customer who was going through many
changes. Reflect a bit on your changes and resolve to joy and the source of
this joy. It is not always fun but Jesus loves you.
God's Garden Tour
December 5th, 2011
I always know when He is there
Coming unbidden to my garden
I cringe at the state of my weeds
My best plants are not in bloom
Yet he comes and walks with me
He rests and quietly soaks in
All that has always been His garden
He stirs up the fragrance of me
Reminds me how much I am loved
Refresh’s like dew on Roses
He plants some exotic flowers
I have no ability to tend
He overwhelms me with presence
I have no capacity to hold
A kiss of the Son through shade
Monday, December 10, 2012
How we work...a snow story
How we work
There is a certain power in
kindness. Over the years I have learned so much about this concept; not all the
lessons have been fun. In particular some concepts stand out as more off
putting than others. One was recognizing that there is no capacity in me to do all
the kind things I would like to do; there are way too many opportunities. Another flaw understood was that there is no
way to control the perception of my generosity and that misinterpretations of
motive are many. Finally there is the very sad truth that good people do not
know how to simply take kindness. This is me and you. Odd really that we dream of a "kind"
world but when someone steps too far into the "giving" realm we step
back because of a feeling of bondage or that the person giving is being too
generous. Kindness is not easy.
Good people all want equity.
They want a balanced ledger, one that feels like they have given as much as
they receive. The words "did you
like my gift" and "yes I loved your gift" are a form or
relationship accounting and good people all work hard at balancing the book.
This is so telling of us. The story that
follows is not good accounting. In this story a debt was created that was never
intended to have paid back. There is no record of this debt on my ledger but
those people who fell victim to my kindness will remember. It is not "I" that exceeded this
kindness quotient but "us". My
customers, suppliers and my family are all as guilty. It is because of all of the above people that
I had the capacity to give as much as I did in the story soooo make sure you
include yourself in this story if you are one of the above people.
It was a Christmas Eve about
three years ago. Lousy weather all day with the snow coming down heavy and then
melting to a translucent slush on the road. At about noon I found out that the
city had sent out the plows fearful of what the forecaster flash freeze would
do to the roads. I knew this was trouble and went out to clear this slop from
my customers. I have never seen such a mess in my life. The piles on the end of
the drive started out knee high but immediately started settling like concrete.
I could see the asphalt under the pile. It was sooo heavy. Gross.
What normally would take
two-three hours ended up taking me from noon to 6:45pm. I remember as I almost
missed Christmas Eve service and could not clean up before going. I was the
poor drummer boy that night lol. I was
the nasty guy in town. People actually cried because of me...and you, you
helped pay for and maintain my truck with plow. If you give a boy a sling shot
all kinds of things will happen.
Here is how it worked. I
would drive down the street and see some cute old lady moving the snow one
tablespoon at a time. We got eye contact and through some system of signalling
that only an auctioneer could understand she moved and let me plow it for her.
Time taken was 15.5 seconds. This same visual discourse would happen between me
and the small boy already dressed for church or the man and his son trying to
get the car out, also obviously late for some event on Christmas Eve. People
would reach for their back pocket, they would rub their fingers together with a
questioning look or they would force me to open the window. The price was the
same for all of them. Nothing.
I was nasty and did not allow
a single one to pay. If they could expect Santa, some guy they have never
really met, to give free gifts worth many times the cost of my 15.5 second gift
AND if they can make the poor sap go through the chimney then poor me can make
them take my gift. Sure having eye
contact with the giver was harder, that's why Santa comes at night. All dirty
deeds should be done under the cover of darkness. It was weird, these people
had to put up with the little bit of sweat trickling out of my eye, mistaking
it for tears of joy at being able to give. I don't cry! I had to put up with their faces. Even now I
get a glimpse of the relief and thankfulness and I want more, I feel bad for
their debt and yet I pray for another storm.
My employees know the drill.
They know they are allowed to help, to use our blessing for others. They know
that 10 minutes giving directions to some lost guest of Guelph is not
"down time". There is actually a rule we have made for "helping"
in winter. If someone asks to have their drive done the worker is to charge our
going rate and then they are to keep the money for themselves. They are only
allowed to do it 3 times, if they like
us they can become part of the cool system that is us. If they see someone is
struggling with plow excretion they do not take into account the equity of
employment but just help. Some of you reading this know this.
Well, I am accepting of the
idea that my joy of being a nasty giver comes out of your monies as a customer
or the good work of our suppliers. My capacity to give comes from you. It is us
giving. Soooo, like with the employees, I am sharing this awesome power. All
customers and suppliers now have the power to "give a snow plow".
They can sic Sandra, Jami, Mark, Chrissy or I on one person in need during a
storm. They can be the giver. They can get the eye contact, they can have the
tear and they can struggle with the arrogant concept of being "the nice
guy". Lol, you think this is kind?
It's kinda mean. Why should I have to bear all the burden.
Just before printing this
story there was an incident at a Tim Hortons. I have heard of this happening.
In fact I have done this. The filthy deed of buying a stranger a coffee. Wow. I
defended myself as best as I could by throwing out a bunch of words. "No
its ok, I can get my own", "are you sure?", "oh thanks so
much". Obviously it was to no avail
and this guy won. It will do me no good to get revenge on the next stranger, it
will do nothing to eliminate this debt with this kind freak. It will stick in
my craw the same as the very kind appreciative words from a long term customer.
Thanks to all and keep it up.
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Falling leaves...
The leaves are falling, the weather is changing. Schepers Property Maintenance can help get your home ready for winter. Raking leaves, eaves cleaning, painting, and whatever else you may require. If we cannot help you then we can always try to find someone who can.
Give us a call today to book your fall maintenance
519-820-6507
Its Bugging Me!!
At the end of this blog there
will be a point I suppose. We will get there together; enjoy the walk while we
head there. It begins with my Granddaughter and our walks that take forever but
somehow always get there. See how that ties in?
It’s sort of about my granddaughter’s fixation with all things buggy. It
is this bent in her nature that make the walks long; that and her astounding
abilities to notice all things gunky and gross. The smallest bug will not
escape her. So observant is she in fact
that when I turned over a rock expecting to keep her occupied I was interrupted
when I proceeded to turn it back in my disappointment in the lack of the creepy.
Lyla reached down and pulled up a BB sized ball that looked like a Potato Bug Armadillo.
She turned a pebble and caught a worm that was 6" long and, in the process
of yanking out this worm, she found the "mommy" Potato Bug.
I love observant people. People,
who remember names, people who can research, people who look through people.
People who look through peep holes. (Philologists and scientists lol, that was
fun). There is a certain amount of trust I give my Granddaughter. One
"trust" I give is that if she says "look" or can I
"hode it" (hold it) there is something to see and something to hode. I
do not trust my granddaughter not to touch a scorpion or a bee and I do not
trust her fully when she says there is nothing in her pockets; I have found the
"Snea Snails" in my carpet. Now, please take the hand of the person
next to you as we do a little jump to the point. I take these steps all the
time but word is out that others do not always follow. Hence the warning.
Fiesta weed spray. There are
certain things I trust about it. In fact, it is pretty transparent about its
ability in the literature it provides and warnings it gives. Proper research
makes it possible for people to make informed decisions. It may in fact work on certain stages of
listed weeds at certain stages of the season in certain weather conditions if
properly applied. It and Nematodes are new and complicated products and IF I am
to use them I need to trust the things they say about themselves. Sooooo, in
the case of Fiesta I would never spray in the fall, I would never give more
than two applications a year and I would not raise people's hopes. Sooooo, when
one of our customers gets an application of Fiesta done this past Monday the
15th of October I can say that the person doing it is nuts, he can't be
trusted.
In the case of Nematodes I am
even more curious. I want to give Lyla a microscope and show her the difference
between our tap water and my Nematode infested water. There is a little fear
and hope that she will never drink water again. Fear because I expect its gross
looking, hope because the mean buggers that eat grubs should be gross looking.
I trust that there are bugs in that package, that the way they say to store
them preserves them and that the way they say to mix them is correct. They are
not leading me astray in the latter and I trust therefore that they are not
misinforming me when they say when to apply and in what conditions. Now is too
late so why sell the service? Call me
May 15th to get on the list.
Finally, for those still with
me, I want to see a Nematode streak towards a grub. I want to see the Grub
recoil as the worm starts destroying it. I want to have the time to turn over a
rock, sit on my haunches and stir the dirt with my fingers. I want this time
not to be a "hobby", a "vacation" or a "break".
It needs to be normal and expected and not a waste of time. Anyone with a
Nematode, a Grub and a microscope that wants to take me for a walk is welcome
to call or write.
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Christmas Chill
It is that time of year again! Our BIG Christmas party for local small businesses in Guelph and area.
December 1st 2012
7pm - 1am
at
Guelph Youth Music Centre
75 Cardigan Street, Guelph.
We have had so much support already but we want to make sure that we can raise as much money as possible for our local charity.
December 1st 2012
7pm - 1am
at
Guelph Youth Music Centre
75 Cardigan Street, Guelph.
We have had so much support already but we want to make sure that we can raise as much money as possible for our local charity.
Right now we are looking for donations for our raffle table.
This will be great exposure for your small business!
This will be great exposure for your small business!
So far we have donations from
Partylite - www.partylite.biz/mjl
Schepers Property
Maintenance - www.guelphlandscapedesign.ca
Abbey
Rose Creations - www.facebook.com/ AbbyRoseCreations
Abbey Rose Accessories - www.facebook.com/ AbbyRoseAccessories
Sarah's Old Fashion
Cleaning -www.sarahs-oldfashionedcle aning.ca
Groove Studios -www.thegroovestudios.com
Cakes by Mockingbird Design
- www.facebook.com/ groups/214136272047838
Segue Music - www.segue-music.com/
We Deliver Wellness 24/7 - http:// tkampen211.blog.com/2012/ 10/01/ concentrate-if-you-care
We Deliver Wellness 24/7 - http://
All profits made from the raffle table will be donated to:
The Childrens Foundation of Guelph and Wellington
I am getting so excited!! This is going to be a great night!!
Thank you in advance for all of you who are participating in this event!
Saturday, August 11, 2012
Where does Crab Grass come from?
We were really confounded
this year by the amount of crab grass present in the rear yard of a customer.
Though we have talked about crab grass recently our conclusion of how this
infestation occurred is important to keep in mind.
Last year, when there was
some crab grass spread to the rear yard, we blamed it on our mowing practices.
This year we changed up how we mowed the lawn and were far more aware of weed
transference due to a dirty lawn mower. We cleaned the lawn mower more regularly and
noted more closely what the machine was used for. We were of course diligent to
get the crab grass out before it turned to seed so we knew that there should
have been less this year. What we ended
up with was more crab grass and it was really confounding.
On further inspection it was
recognized that there was some new construction of a walk in the rear yard.
This meant that foreign materials were brought to the rear yard and amongst
this material was sand and screening. The latter two materials are notorious
for having tons of crab grass seed present and are as bad or worse than the
road sand used by the city. One bucket of material spilled or, if there was
just a bit left over, it was spread out to "top dress the lawn". This
would have been enough to create this year's infestation. Just a note, I too would likely have done the
same thing or one of my workers may have. It really is not a bad practice
depending on the volume of material.
The conclusion was again
proven to be the likely cause when we experienced a huge infestation of a
customers year who had just installed a pool and new deck. The infestation was all around the perimeter of
the construction site. The quote from us for getting rid of the weeds was quite
high and as this was a country property he had resources to kill them city
folks don't have. My worry is is that unless you get rid of every seed head
that was formed and actually pull them out before you pick up mature seeds with
shoes and lawn mowers this infestation will not end. This will become a yearly
event of spraying and then reseeding the lawn. Pull them out folks.
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